Reduce TBB usage
Most of the TBB classes used in Gaudi can be straightforwardly replaced using the C++ standard library and boost. This MR replaces:
- tbb::recursive_mutex with std::recursive_mutex
- tbb::tick_count with std::chrono
- tbb::concurrent_hash_map with std::unordered_map protected by a std::mutex
With regard to the last commit I preferred an anonymous namespace to a static private member.