Small fixes for boost-mpi3
- Fix failing CI in athena!73723 (merged) by adding boost-mpi3 to AthGenerationExternals and AthAnalysisExternals
- Necessary because MPIEventLoopMgr is in AthenaServices (and splitting it out would require making the AthenaHiveEventLoopMgr header public)
- Add a couple of extra environment variable exports to FindMPI wrapper for the LCG OpenMPI use case