Remove upfront_decoder.bind which is deprecated by LHCb!4463

• Remove any upfront_decoder.bind calls which are no longer needed in combination with LHCb!4463 (merged).
• remove unused _data_deps as it is no longer needed
• make sure to use get_mc_particles and get_mc_vertices from PyConf to unpack MC Particles and Vertices, so that there is only one single unified way to configure those unpackers
• add explicit dependencies to some unpacker configurations which unpack objects with references to other objects

required for LHCb!4463 (merged) and DaVinci!1056 (merged)