Fix crash from bad args

Add validation that prevents enabling stave level checks with only sanity checks for protocols at higher levels i.e. check sanity its-stave. It should require a more rigorous check i.e. check all its-stave

Also add aliases to a bunch of options. Now you can for example filter stave with --its-stave LX_Y or --stave LX_Y instead of the more verbose --filter-its-stave LX_Y or the short but cryptic -s LX_Y.