SPI-2322: Update contur to 2.4.1.dev20230323 in dev builds

See merge request !1676

devnxcals: remove numpy changes

See merge request !1674

SPI-2336: Update frontier_client to 2.10.1

See merge request !1672

SPI-2337: Add SFGen recipe and and also add SFGen 1.03 in dev builds

Closes SPI-2337

See merge request !1675

devSwan: remove some package constraints, now use same as general stack

See merge request !1671

[SPI-2333]: update pyhf and some of its dependencies, add ml_dtypes for jaxlib

See merge request !1666

This did not work correctly anyway, so probably was not needed, and horovod is not compiling against the latest tensorflow and flatbuffers

tensorflow: use tensorflow-cpu when there is no cuda, tensorflow without anything is with gpu support, this causes some missing symbol errors down the line (for example in horovod), for some reason on macos things were working fine for tensorflow libraries, which caused horovod to pick it up

SPI-2301: pyarrow: instead of CLI arguments, now environment variables have to be used...

See merge request !1670

pyarrow: instead of CLI arguments, now environment variables have to be used to decide what to install

Without the environment variables some _dataset...so files were not installed

otherwise undefined reference errors for torch_shm_manager

needed for gcc12, from https://github.com/protocolbuffers/protobuf/pull/9936