SPI-1854: Fix for Apache Arrow recipe

Fix for Apache arrow recipe:

• activates brotli, lz, snappy. glog and jemalloc properly;
• use Release mode for Thrift in lcgcmake Debug mode;
• build shared libraries instead of static for several arrow deps;
• use arrow 3.0.0 for Python3 and keep arrow 0.16.0 for Python2 builds.
• remove flags disabling BMI and SSE 4.2 instructions.